Mar 20, 2018
Most organizations, which are
groups of people led by someone, are poor at listening. But the
tone at the top drives it all. As a leader, if you don’t listen to
both verbal and non-verbal communication, as well as proactively
engage others, then your approach or method of listening will not
cascade through your organization and down to customers. Create a
connection that is powerful and deep. Karen Borg is a commercial
businessperson who discusses the role of market research in
commercial organizations and how money is wasted by repeating
research and ignoring what customers are saying.
Karen brings many different
perspectives on how to listen to different opinions to reach a
great outcome. What are the roles involved with listening? As a
result, you may have to change what you are saying.
While in boarding school in
Germany, teachers taught Karen about listening. In the German language, there is a formal and
informal use of “you.” The language and the culture is more of a
formal way of communicating. Therefore, listening is predicated on
whether you are being addressed formally or informally.
Concessions are made for people
who have not grown up in such a culture. But you should consider
certain things when interacting with someone from another culture.
Such as, appreciate any effort someone has made to understand your
culture. If they don’t put forth effort, then others may view their
engagement style as insulting and inappropriate. Karen describes
the importance of appreciating and respecting different cultures
and demonstrating that you want to learn more.
Tune in to Learn
- Karen
describes the difference in commerce cultures in the East and
elsewhere, such as whether to shake hands or not.
- In
Japan, Karen went to a supermarket and thought she bought some kind
of dried fish. She shared it with others, which made meetings with
them much easier because they had shared something
together.
- Karen
attended boarding school in Germany, in a culture where she knew
nothing about it. She was very much a foreigner. Eventually, she
could listen to others who were speaking German and understand
everything they were saying. Her experience in Germany, though,
helped her to become independent and adaptable.
- Karen
was born in Australia, and eventually moved back there. When she
returned to Australia, she discovered how much more informal and
acknowledging teachers were in schools.
- Karen
moved from academic learning into commerce, which took her to some
amazing far and away places. She wanted to experience the
intersection of commerce and creativity, so she first got into
advertising.
- Business is about the delivery of outcomes.
Ultimately, you have to deliver results. Customers, shareholders,
and others expect that.
- Briefing Process: To write a good brief is an
art. Language, when well used, can tell a very clear story about
the objective you are trying to achieve. When briefs are done
poorly, the outcomes can be diabolical. People are not well-trained
in how to articulate their thoughts and structure
briefs.
- A
common element across all great briefs is when you start out with
the end in sight - what you are trying to achieve. Develop the
structure of the objective first, and then fill around
it.
- Karen
decided to move away from advertising to become a client instead,
where she could experience owning everything - from making
decisions to handling budgets. She went to a chocolate company to
learn how to build and maintain a business.
- Money
is often wasted on market research. Hear what the customer said and
do what the customer asked. Customers are usually emotionally
attached to specific brands and products. Determine whether
research results have changed or not and how people view the
packaging and products - do they find them tiring or not. It’s the
trusted and the loved that keeps customers coming back.
- Nobody has bad memories, only good, about
confectionary - sunny times and good feelings.
- Karen
shares an experience with a dissatisfied customer in a hospital in
Japan about a sterilization product and a lightbulb malfunctioning
in it. In Japanese culture, a product must work the same way, every
time. When it does not work the way it should, a customer’s anger
becomes intense. In response, Karen was sincere, apologized, and
expressed that she would try to solve the problem. She listened to
the customer and acknowledged their frustration. It comes down to
cultural norms.
- Organizations are typically poor at listening
and engaging others, and that approach comes from the top. The
leader of an organization setting up metrics around customers and
their needs that need to be followed, measured, and responded to
quickly via dialogue.
- Leaders are listeners who consider what others
say and offer support. Trust that the other person has heard you
and is willing to respond in some way. Judge by action, not
words.
- Set
up an engagement model that works for everyone. Acknowledge that
something needs to be addressed, but not calling it out or
identifying the “elephant in the room.” So that in ends positively
and resolves issues.
Links and Resources:
Karen Borg
Rowntree Hoadley Factory; Nestlé
Haribo Gummy Bears
Volkswagen
Mars and Coke
Johnson & Johnson
Quotes:
“By opening yourself up and
demonstrating you want to learn more, people want to share more.” -
Karen Borg
“It’s an art to say just enough,
not too much, not too little.” - Karen Borg
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